Nukepana, I have to say that, as I got to know the game I emailed the GMs from time to time about issues I perceived. Some of them were taken on board. Others not. But the main sense I get of how the GMs react to what I have said to them is that they evaluate my opinions in terms of the game, not in terms of any perception of my 'influence' (or not). If it's valid, they take it on board. If it's not, they don't.
My point is that it's not down to 'who' you are, but to what you say to them. Probably the players who have been around longer are listened-to more. But that is because they know the game better and can make more balanced and informed points, not because they are 'someone'.
The player-base is different and it is true that there are a lot of personal opinions bandied about on the forum and in chat. A lot of players ... not all of them by any means, but a fair proportion ... react to a post or a comment, not on the basis of what is said, but on who is saying it. Call it human frailty, but please don't accuse the GMs of that foible. In my experience, they are very successful in focussing on content to the exclusion of personality.
Of course, I have been playing the game a lot longer that you and that will probably cause you to put my comments down to being one of the people who 'personally know the GM'. In fact, I don't, and I have emailed them very few times ... about 15 in total. But until you are experienced enough to email them yourself, with a valid analysis of how the game works and objective suggestions on how it might be improved, you are unlikely get a positive response. Because it's based on content.
It's a lot easier to blame nepotism than to take the time to learn the subtleties and make a positive contribution. I suggest you understand the positives before you start accusing people of the negatives.
Hugs and respect
Jo