Anthony, love, if being called a "retard" was ALL I have ever been called in this game, I would consider that a compliment! lol :-P
But seriously, Crafty being a bully???? OMG I have known him for YEARS in this game and never once have I EVER seen him bully or be rude to another player. I've tested his patience MANY times, but never once has he ever been a bully or called me a name. No, a bully is not someone who disagrees with you or points something out that conflicts with your views.
Kasper is not a bully. He is more of an instigator. lol (ALTHOUGH, I do need to wash his mouth out wif soap ha ha ha ha) I would also put you in that category, myself, - an instigator. But hey, you are in good company, as I am somewhat of an instigator myself. :-P
Some "battles" are better solved by just walking away. Something I should have learned to do some years ago here. My best friend in the whole world in this game kept telling me, you continue to feed it, it will all end in tears. Course, I'm a girl, so I'm sure it won't end in tears for you. lol