Wendy and the BME

After some time in this War I have come to find out some of the issues that caused it to be.
This has caused me some concern. It is my understanding that some of the members of the BME Federation have unjustly made claims that Wendy has been running Multiplayers in the game which some believe to be unfair and the GM's have against the rules.
I have had a long conversation (chat) with Wendy and over the years I have respected her name and she has shown herself to be honorable, so I believe her word that she has never done such a thing.
Because of this I will be leaving the BME Federation at the end of my current war. I do not believe that even in a game should someone or a group of people unfairly besmirch the honor of another.

I congratulate her victories against the BME and your decision to leave such a slanderer and calumniating Federation.

So question, Dboyd.......do you believe Wendy or do you believe your fedmates? Did you even talk to Bobo or any member of your federation to get their side? Where did you find out about the cause of the war? Wendy? ha ha ha ha ha ha THAT IS PRICELESS!

Good job. Nicely constructed post as you rehearsed it with Wendy in the chat room. ha ha ha ha Again, PRICELESS!

Well..... this is awkward......

My Fedmates had not responded to any emails for the last three days in the middle of a war. And I had already heard rumors of the incident.

Dboyd, if you have about an hour, I will tell you the whole story.

I am the one who called Wendy a Multiplayer.........that was well over a year ago, and yes the GM posted that I was incorrect in my accusation, and I accepted that. It was following a heated argument that she and I had well over a YEAR ago after she decided to use personal real life information about me as game smack concerning a real life relationship I had with a player which ended badly, which was non relevant to game. I reported it to the GM, she was taken to task for it, and the resentment has been forever building. She is a player who thinks she can say and do anything and not be taken to task for it.

I no longer play the game. I officially left the game the end of the year, and have not actively played or been federated since last fall. I opened this free account to pop in occasionally to talk to some game friends and to stay in touch with my real life friend, Bobo, whose email is CRAPPY.

I'm no longer affiliated with BME and haven't been in about 4 months......so again, what was her purpose for this war with YOU?

Did she mention how many times in this game over the course of years that she has called other players a Multi??? Ask Josias, I believe he was a player that she branded as such. I can go back over old posts and show you examples. She is a player whose behavior is so grossly wrong, she is banned from even posting in these here forums. Yet, you have called her honorable? Interesting.

You have managed here to do as she told you to do so as for you to get your two lost countries back. You are a seasoned player. I can understand a noob player, scared of a larger player, giving in to such game manipulations, but you...I am shocked. But hey, I am not berating you, because honestly, you didn't deserve to be picked on for something I said over a year ago. The girl has issues, and probably would have never left you alone had you not left BME and denounced it. I don't know what her agenda is.......I have left the game and will never return to play it. But you should have told her that you joined BME as a favor to Bobo, and not to serve with me, because I really don't even know you.

The reason you got no replies is because honestly everyone is so sick of Wendy and her nonsense, several of our group have left the game, disbanded, not actively playing, and some are yet to still leave, but will be leaving the game. BME is a dead fed. Wendy accomplished her objective, so I am trying to figure out what her "excuse" is now. lol

But for you to come here and post that she is an honorable player is a slap in the face to all the players who've had to deal with her idiocy, uncalled for insults and bullying over the years.

This is all I have to say on the matter, because honestly I am sick of Wendy and have no vested interest in the game. BUT I am going to set the record straight and whether people will admit it, they KNOW the truth.

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Did she mention how many times in this game over the course of years that she has called other players a Multi??? Ask Josias, I believe he was a player that she branded as such. MD<!-/Quote-!>

true, until the GM stopped it, she forum-stalked me, posting that i was a multi after everything i posted. it was an erroneous accusation.

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But for you to come here and post that she is an honorable player is a slap in the face to all the players who've had to deal with her idiocy, uncalled for insults and bullying over the years. MD<!-/Quote-!>

also true, or partly. Wendy tends to make a big show. For the players that are passive, and never directly experience her assertive side... that would be untrue. Being more entertaining than irritating. But for the players that actually want to build an empire, and be Sim-powerful, her obnoxious side, is, well, more than just abrasive.

that said, dboyd leaving BME, is a big hit, i hope you find a good home!

Wendy is The Queen of Battle. Without Wendy I recon 30% of you who have faced her 'obnoxious side' (surely its a trait to be obnoxious when one is The Queen of Battle lol ) would have left the game already due to having no reason to play lol anyways.....as we know....Our Queen cannot defend herself on this forum....So I'm gonna draw a line. I would prefer if this subject to be left until Wendy returns. But I insist that if you insist to continue that no insults are thrown (I'm not saying any have, but I know how things could go). A long time ago Wendy helped make me a Prince of Battle. I will not tolerate my Queen not being able to counter insults.

Peace&Hardcore.....Nix001.......Mother Natures Dying

and i see it as just the opposite Nix. i've seen her just plain destroy feds, chasing off un-involved players to punish the fed leaders. BME is a huge case in point. Then you mix that with that fact that she if she risk anything bigger than a C3, its most likely because she forgot to put up war protection. its a war game abuse that allows her to attack with impunity, tearing down any one that would actually try, while bragging, and belittling the person that would follow along with "country building theme"

her refusal to admit defeat, while demanding victory, and hiding behind a war game abuse, creates an imbalance, that has chased off many, many people from this game. she's even gone as far as enticing a player to attack some one, she'd be obligated to defend, just to punish him for talking to me in chat. the gal is mental, and its better for her to be silenced.

+1 Josias. Thank you. At least I know now jan and I aren't the crazy ones :/. Nix, hush it. You are not a prince of battle. I have took several of your countries on FB lol.

Nico, I have been busy and not committed. As I said in a thread about not knowing who took a couple of my 49 countries due to the games master sending me 100's of messages a day telling me to get them in order, so the war dec's had been deleted before I saw them. I had my suspicions but I don't act on suspicion. (If I remember rightly I asked you on another thread if you had taken them and you gave no reply) So Nico....before I commit to war....why did you do that? You have one day to comply LOL

Josias. With all due respect, and maybe because Nico has just got me in the war mood, but The Queen of Battle is just one person. If you can't contain one person then maybe either The Queen of Battle will never be beaten....Or you just don't know how to handle a Queen. Either way, just be glad you have never met her in a bar lol ;) Srry my Queen....I bow with disgrace.

Nix, with all due respect, it isn't up to the players to contain another player. It is up to the gamemaster to do that. Players should not be permitted to run off other players, but for some reason, and as much as I love Andy to death, they permit this to happen. Yes, they have banned her from the forums. She should have been banned from Chat as well, because she is every bit as offensive there as well. There is a difference in good natured game smack and what I know that I've had to endure the last two years straight.

There is something inherently wrong with her. She has no conscience and no caring, whatsoever. The girl has no clear conscience of hurting people or being mean. All I can say is.....scary individual. All I know is I want no part of her or her game any more. I have pulled my money and as much as people have asked me to stay and not let Wendy run me off. Sorry, I'm done. Y'all deal with her insane behavior over a game.

The gamemasters think I'm the only one with this sentiment. I'm not. Others just choose to not involve themselves with Wendy because she is above the top and will make their game a living hell as she has made my experience in this game for years.

Oh and Nix, about this nonsense of Wendy can't defend herself........pfft. If she didn't want commentary about herself, she wouldn't have rehearsed this so called "speech" by Dboyd in the first place. Hunny, she thrives on this stuff and she KNEW she would get a reaction.

Nix, I believe Fearless Blue is called a war world for something! And also, I was trying to help you since, you know, you have 49 countries with $14T in debt. And commit to what war? Lol

nix this is for you,

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Bull Nico. You thought you would grab some easy countries, got stung with a debt and thought better of it. I see you have three slaves on KB. I'll have them if you want to make us evens?

Hey MotherDucker. I hate to see people leave games because of someone else ruining it for them. But in computer games you have to draw a line. Nothing is real and no-one can hurt you. Unless you give up information that can be used against you in the court of chat or forum. Which can be easily done I guess. Anyways. Re-group, re-name, re-train and come back as a Kamikaze Ninja. As for 'it isn't up to the players to contain another player. It is up to the gamemaster to do that.' I have to disagree. This is a programme that calculates reactions and adapts to changes. It is up to the subjects of the programme to determine the reason of the change. Not the programme or its makers. Anyways...sorry to see a player leave thats not pissed off with the game. (Im tired...sorry if I'm just rambling)

Just seen your post Josias. I'm knackered mate. I'll check it out another day

I think you should leave KB out of this. I wish to not let the fed I am in to be involved. BUT I am on LU and FB. Feel free.

I think you should have not taken my countries in the first place. So I will not take what you think into consideration. You attacked Mother Natures Army, which means all Forces, whether on FB, LU, WG or KB will be involved in your demise. As for your fed....why don't you do what BooBoo did and leave your fed to fight me?
Nico. I was hoping you would have said sorry for stealing my countries, with the excuse that you thought I wasn't playing anymore. But you banged the war drums so therefore I will use the 250T of ammo on you. So I guess the only question is when. I am a Shadow walker Nico. I strike my enemies when they least expect it. So get them garrisons upgraded and your air force in the air. Welcome to my game.

Nix, love, there is truth in what you say, but when you have been around the game as long as I have, personal info will come through. It still doesn't excuse the behavior of the person who uses it for game smack. I would think all of you, including you, with any sense of morality and decency would frown on that sort of behavior. I was a person in the game too, and a friend to many of you.

Now, if you wanna call me names and keep it game, blah blah, I'll accept that in a game. Anything more than that is unacceptable and Wendy should be stopped from doing that. And yes, after five years of playing this game and getting to know a lot of you, whom I adored, I no longer will play it, because for me.... I don't choose to be a part of such sick dysfunction.

And if it is up to the community to contain Wendy, then why haven't any of you done so? Well that tells me you condone that sort of behavior by another player, mayhap even think it funny, eh? Doesn't say alot for your character if you do. There used to be a time when players united to take a player to task. But hey, she is your Queen.

I have left, regrouped come back to the same ol' BS, multiple times. The girl has stalked me for years in this game under different chat names made possible through her mutliple external chat clients. She has some serious issues and just doesn't leave things alone. Her issues are more than just me calling her a multi over a year ago. I'm not sure what the issue is, unless it is jealousy of some sorts, or a turf battle...I dunno. I say, enough, and I'm willing to let her have her game and to continue to control all of you and who plays and how they play. All I can say, is the game has gone so far downhill in my estimation due to players like her. Good luck to you and good luck to the game of Simcountry.

I really do wish all of you the best and it was a pleasure knowing you all these years. Hopefully one day you will all take a stand over this one player and say "enough is enough". Your player base is dying and she is contributing to that. But maybe that is the plan for game control??? A shame there can't be good fed competitions like the days of old...when we fought each other, smacked each other, but were still friends.

Anyways, I'm not going to keep harping on about Wendy. She really isn't my problem any more, she is yours and this game's problem, but people and players need to know the truth. She is NOT an honorable player as Dboyd posted in this thread.

I'll be waiting nixy nix

to many large messages to read

Then don't read them. lol But if you want me to keep it 10 words or less for YOU, here you go:

Wendy is NOT an honorable player.

Sorry MotherDucker. Over the 6 or so years of being here I have been in game chat twice. The first I clicked on by mistake and the second I was looking for someone. But then again my reasons for being here are alot different to other players.

Anyways, due to not being apart of the chat and therefore not being qualified to talk about it I would like to just say sorry to see you go. (If you are who I think you are I am very sorry to see you go) I agree also that personal info should be respected, even if our real leaders in the real world don't think that.
Unfortunately in the real world I see Leaders using personal smack talk to unnerve their opponents.

I'm afraid a Queen of Battle would use all means and tools to win against sometimes heavily out numbered odds. Even if, to everyone else, its a bit below the belt. Sorry I don't know whats been said so I don't know how far below the belt it was.

Also I hope you are wrong about the game community not dealing with bad ones. I remember some of us going after a racist and a Nazi back in the day. As I'm not in Game chat I don't see whats being said. I just react to the Forum.


Nico. I know you by another name don't I?

Don't believe so...

I will miss you too, Nixers. I'll miss all the ones that I've laughed and joked around with over the years. Had some fun times. NO ONE can destroy my shoes NOW!!! :P

It is a shame, that one bad apple casts a rotten stench over the entire game. No new player or even those like me who return to the game can ever attack Wendy. Just like Josias said above. You can only "take" what she is willing to lose. The game where it stands will ALWAYS protect her assets, which she has stores of. The bad apple is here forever.

Like I said........when players leave because of a player...there is a problem. I found out today another member of BME on WG left the game because of Wendy and her nonsense. And I know of another player who is also leaving soon.

Congratulations!!!! Great game you all have! Players are dropping like flies. Where is Aries now???? BME needs to be rebuilt to balance out that power on WG!!!! The Union NEVER disbanded, did it? Pffft ha ha ha

Tootles!!!!

PS. And for the ridiculous inquiries that I'm getting asking me if I am Rob (Blueserpent).....what on earth do you even find remotely British in my posts???? lol :P Here I'll throw you all a curve here!!!

The game as played by some is bollocks!!!!

Well Jan, its.... encouraging to see you here posting propaganda as usual. Seems you NEVER left pffft ha ha ha